Social Media Reality Check

You may remember I wrote a few weeks ago about being off social media for a while. There were many reasons for this, mostly overwhelm and an ADHD diagnosis. But, one of the accumulative reasons was an ongoing viral video I mistakenly posted to my personal Instagram account and the response to it. I posted the video on March 28, 2024, the day I had filmed it in Nagano.

To date, the video has 306K views, 7.4K likes, and 1.2K shares. 99.9% of views were from people who didn’t follow me. This is the story I wrote soon after the episode. It made me scrutinise what I want and how I’m putting myself out there as a writer. Some of the comments made me physically ill. People suggesting I gouge its eyes out and various other inhumane and evil acts.

My experience of something going viral was not what I expected. I had chased likes and views on socials for my blog for nearly 10 years by this time. I had dreamed of that one video that may change everything. This video did change everything, but not the way I had hoped. It increased my anxiety about being vulnerable in an unmoderated social space. It made me question what kind of response I might get if my book is published, as my opinion might be difficult for others to understand or like. It affected my self-esteem and my confidence.

I’ve decided to share the story here. In the last few weeks I’ve reclaimed the courage and the tenacity that I headed into writing a memoir with, and remembered why I want to share my story. The need to connect with others, in a profound and deep way, is paramount to my work. Plus, Gizmo (as I call him) is too cute, and deserves to be shared.

Original story from Blossomkitty…

The Monkeys

A couple of weeks ago, I visited the Jigokudani Monkey Park, in Nagano, Japan. The park is famous for the Japanese macaque monkeys who live there. The monkeys enjoy bathing in the onsen, a natural mineral hot spring. During the winter, the Nagano temperatures plunge to -8℃ and there is substantial snowfall. The monkeys spend their days sitting in the warm water, preening each other, and looking blissed out.

The monkeys are wild and live in the mountains around Jigokudani Park. In 1864, Kōrakukan Ryokan opened for travellers to visit and enjoy the waters in riverside baths. The monkeys began visiting the baths. To discourage the behaviour, park officials decided to build the monkeys a private bath of their own. Over time, the monkeys have developed their own bathing culture.

It’s fascinating to watch the monkeys sitting around. There are no cages or confinement of any kind. They return to the trees in the mountains above their onsen at night, and return in the morning. People are not allowed to touch the monkeys, and they seem oblivious to humans, walking through the legs of visitors, and doing their own thing.

The sight of these amazing creatures caught my breath. I quickly noticed a very cute, very young little guy, who was breastfeeding in the water. His mum looked exasperated, and I could relate to the feeling, after my own breastfeeding experiences. She looked like she wanted a break. The little guy began jumping in and out of the water, onto rocks and then onto his mum’s head. He then began swimming for the edge, hauled himself out, and started crying out for her. The cries sounded like the chirping of crickets, and the baby looked like Gizmo, from Gremlins. I started filming. He was so adorable.

Social Media

On the bus on the way home I decided to share my video on social media as a reel. Unfortunately, as I have several accounts, rather than sharing it to my Japan account, I shared it to my personal account. I had no idea it would go viral.

It currently has 187,239 views, 4,781 likes, and has been shared 587 times. It has led to around 700 new followers, and a barrage of trolling. People accusing me of taking the baby away from its mother, and others telling me to do awful things to it. It’s been an interesting learning opportunity. I have been overwhelmed by the response, and annoyed with myself it wasn’t on my other profile. Furthermore, it has made little difference to my overall page stats. Anyone who is just waiting for that one magical post…it may not be what it seems.